The first woman in the end matter

Young women start planning their sex life, most would like to ask is: not to "give" him.
　　
The good news is, now they are worried not that men will not change of heart after the fact. Gradually grow the power of female autonomy, and the pragmatic attitude of love, so women have a new self-positioning: a change of heart on the change of heart now! They might, do you first change of heart too!
　　
They are not worried about the future can not be a virgin with a physical state into the marriage. Frequent contact with the first in this, who think that Virgin is not a virgin any of it? Even if the other mind, there are many "remedies" or "cover up" approach to it!
　　
They are worried about the psychological state after'd love: If you give him, he would not have a sense of loss, will thus become insecure?
　　
This question is to ask those who do not take it conservative moral awe-inspiring person. So they turn to ask a woman who seems to understand, considerate woman's progress in women: Do not they going to "give" him?
　　
The progress of his face with a resolute look of women's body autonomy, proposed a vague statement:
　　
"The body is their own. If you think you want, then rest assured that to do; if your heart is not very willing, of course do not have wronged ourselves. But if you want to keep her boyfriend because a man do That was stupid. If men because you refused to give him leave you, it revealed that he thought only his own desires, without regard to your feelings, and that contrary to early good morning! So, if you feel not so think (there are many concerns, or also feel fear), then never give in.. respect your own feelings, one day you will find a man you do not fear the people wholeheartedly. "
　　
Listen to this vague proposal seems very reasonable, but the fact is the end of the high-level "for sale" mentality on the waiting. No experience but also for women, after all, empty their own bodies just some empty words only; put it bluntly, but with an empty body to remain a virgin state of self-only, on the positive woman to explore her body exercise, control their own feeling, do not put forward any specific drilling methods.
　　
To implement their own bodies, there must be appropriate to change the concrete practice of the status of women's desire to jump out of trouble.
　　
Therefore, the practical autonomy of the body, said:
　　
First, you need to develop good physical passions tuned their ability to control. For example, rising heart desires weekdays or imagined scenes of passion, do not blame or guilt ridden, and in order to overcome this reaction had been trained the way you look at even A patient in need of special film, A Book , A CD-ROM, midnight show, lock code sets has been rather use your assertive, very critical view shopping shopping, carefully selected to read the, like the point of view, to fully enrich their own imagination to flesh appetite.
　　
Then, you need to understand and practice their own positive body, often to their own body not only to love, to take the initiative to discover where his body pleasure and the required hardware and software conditions, more interesting shops need to go shopping, buy some cause you're curious the heart of things. If your passion in life planning includes men and sex, then you should properly use electric massager and other equipment, their first attempt to insert many times many times, the pleasure of sexual experience. With experience, the more understanding and confidence, will have more ability to autonomy.
　　
So, you have to ask they going to do to him?
　　
Round and round on this issue and old people really concerned about is the "first time" Who are?
　　
I said, the first woman to the first hundred times, and all should be their own. Veteran of the Virgin, in the face when the man's mercy will not idiots, we will not lose autonomy.
　　
You still have a sense of loss will not ask?
　　
After this speech variety of temper, and perhaps a sense of loss that you worried about would not exist?? Because you have a changed man, you have become a self-confidence and knowledge, they have autonomy, there is simply blame will not be having sexual intercourse with the woman was removed