I am a married woman, has been abstinence, love of family work, even though compared to her husband, my job better, but I do all the housework, taking good care of them Yeliang. My husband is also very good, but bookish, psychological endurance is poor, has always been my enlighten him take care of him, friends say I'm too spoiled him. As a result of the reasons men around me very much. I can test out many words, but also a lot of direct pursuit, because do not like socializing, a little bit as far as possible to avoid contact with wild ambition, good character, have become man, I have been confident of their own, nor that circumcenter.
However, excessive work pressure this spring on the status of her husband suddenly felt tired often: Why are you enlighten me to take care of you, keep your home takes a lot of money dealing with the problem? Why not as a husband to support you to understand me?
Red had never been married seven years we finally face the contradiction there, when I met my a man known for a long time, I'm an older age, mature, open-minded tolerance, everything to persuade my good deeds, he bit high weight is not obvious, and frugal family dedicated approachable love love sports, men everywhere are in line with my requirements. Although the first time by a person other than her husband's attraction, but no other ideas, do not want any further complications. But he moved the heart. As the Internet say it: Women think with the upper body, long a close friend, and men think with the lower body, eager to have and to conquer it. Later, students and universities meet a man, this is a very successful person, very humble and simple minded, friends help, very much a man, because it is old school, I did not fortified, are talking to, and now he began to pursue my . I really do not know why he will like me? In fact, I'm not beautiful, a baby face, clothing, manners never ostentatious, very little entertainment, is a famous conservative person, I just want to have a male confidant, did not want to subject oneself to the conscience. The two of them are people I deeply trust, and I do not want to lose them, how do I do?
Has been, always that: the pro-woman, is far better than girls in the United States.
Moreover, the more people to middle-aged men, the more decent like the gentle and lovely young woman, they are no longer very young Maotouxiaohuo child, and if the talk to those young sister formed a "partnership", it can not afford to toss it! Moreover, naive decently dressed woman in a man seems, more of a reserved temperament, words and deeds than those advertised in red with green woman, the more womanly. Therefore, marriage, you are subject to the attention of two successful men, would not be surprised, time, bring only the commonplace wrinkled skin, but it would be wise to bring the charm of accumulation.
However, even if you are so attractive, or to advise you: an affair of the road, Cautious!
Like you said, the greatest dissatisfaction with your husband is: he tolerance is poor, his assistant, he wants you to enlighten him all his life to help all. Live together with him, you feel tired, feel wronged.
However, please think about this: If you side with the success that the two men live together, your life will be successful yet?
Really do not. Many leaders of the wife heard the complaint: the husband how high, but never around the house as "home", a wife can enjoy all the benefits, and they all missed. Yes, the name, they have a capable husband, he handed in a month will also receive a cost of not less support their families, but the home away from home, a little bit but also Zhiwangbushang him.
When his wife is not good leadership, the more capable leader's wife how high the more terrible. Like to see an earlier news: a land mass the leading families of the compound was dubbed the "Widow's Village", because, year see their men home.
As you around the "perfect man", as Zhexiang in with you saying "love", it must abandon the car where his wife availability for a solitary intolerable, this alone, all his benefits are the discount, because he's good for a woman, is based on another woman's "bad" based on.
Back to your question: do not want to derail, but do not want to lose them, and how to do?
Very simple. Approached their lives, but not into their lives.
What kind of man women like best? What kind of woman men most likely to struggle wrapped around I, did not forget to correct?
The answer is: those who make them almost to be, but it has not really been with the woman.
If you can do so, whether it is "confidante" and "blue Yan friends", they you'll never forget! But if you can not, you fall into the trap, and that soon, only the addition of this world into a pair of resentment by the grace of a secret lover.
Do not lose your position. The emotional issues, women can have their own position, is the most valuable thing and stick to it, the result, will not make you regret it!
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