[Reserved] seven strokes optimistic, cheerful personality train kids children _ Yin.

Original Address: optimistic, cheerful seven strokes cultivation character of the child: Qian Duoduo <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> .<wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> optimistic both a state of mind, is a character quality. .Survey shows that not only are more optimistic and cheerful health (such as depression, cancer incidence was significantly lower than those pessimistic), but more happy married life, career is also easier to be successful. .So how do you raise children with such a positive character? American childhood education expert, Dr. Ta Nike made the following recommendations: <wbr> 1, not too tight a grip on the child as a parent, of course, can not discipline the child without, left unchecked, but control over .Yan and may suppress the innocence innocent children, children's mental health have a negative effect. .May wish to let the children at different ages have different options. .Only small children can enjoy the right to choose, and feel truly happy and at ease. .<wbr> 2, to encourage children to make friends mostly children of poor communication character of depression, because from time to time may suffer the torment of loneliness, do not enjoy the warmth of friendship. .May wish to encourage children to make friends, especially friends the same age. .Itself, introverted, depressed child to be more appropriate to pay more cheerful optimism friends. .<wbr> 3, teach your child get along with people who get along with others is more a bright inner world. .Parents with children may wish to contact with different age, gender, personality, occupation and social status of the people, so they learn and the different types of people get along. .Of course, children must first learn with their parents and siblings get along, get along with friends and relatives. .In addition, parents themselves should get along well with others, so warm and honest, no snobbery humble, not talk about others behind the free, the children set a good example. .<wbr> 4, material life to avoid the extravagant life of luxury will make the material to produce a greedy child psychology, and the pursuit of material is often difficult to obtain another self-satisfied, greedy and that is why most of the root causes are not happy. .In contrast, children who lived a simple life, often as long as get a toy, you will enjoy yourself very happy. .<wbr> 5, hobbies your child if a child is only a hobby, it is difficult to maintain long-term perception of happiness. .Just think: if only the children like to watch TV programs at night when no suitable, my heart will definitely unhappy. .On the contrary, if the child could not see to love reading TV, read newspapers or play games, in which the same Coke. .<wbr> 6, children learn to guide the plight of the people, even nature can not be optimistic about everything agreeable, and can not "always happy." .Parents are the best hours in the child intentionally develop them to meet difficulties, the ability of stress. .If the child for a moment, not out of the woods, you can also educate their children learn patience, or the time of adversity come to seek another spiritual sustenance, such as participation in sports, games, chat and more. .<wbr> 7, create a happy family atmosphere, family atmosphere, the relationship between family members, to a large extent will affect the child the formation of character. .Research shows that children can feel around before babbling mood and atmosphere, even though he was not yet able to express. .It is conceivable that even a hostile family violence, absolutely not cheerful optimism of the children develop. .<wbr> Source: Daily Hulunbeir.